Forgiveness has many layers and aspects… as many as the progression of loving yourself. We all know how is to do the forgiveness work and some time later realizing it still has to be dealt with more. AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF MORE, YOU CAN LOVE OTHERS MORE. YOU CAN FORGIVE MORE AND MORE, BOTH YOU AND OTHERS. GRATEFULNESS AND COMPASSION REPLACES SORROW AND PAIN TRANSFORMING YOU ON A HIGHER HEART CENTERED BEING VIBRATING AT THE AWARENESS FREQUENCY.
First of all when we work on forgiving certain event, people… we also have to forgive ourselves because there is always, at least, the feeling of why did it happen to me? how did i allow it? how did i create it? what have i done to deserve it?
Work on these aspects:
Understanding that we are never judged by the creator, therefore we are never judged by our higher self is very important. why should you judge yourself then?
Next matters to understand that all events are to be seen as instruments of evolution so… we have to find gratefulness inside our heart.
Instead of judging yourself, analyze it and grow with the experience. You can become better? so do it… become better by looking at the self you do not agree with and move on!!!
Accept that each time you progress more layers needing work will show up. When this happens means you are ready to open your heart more by looking at things. That doesn`t mean you stay there in that hard moment… means only you can go there even if just by a minute and believe me… new awareness crops up changing you again! so do not get depressed over it by thinking your doing things wrong. Thats the opposite!
The goal here:
Observe your feelings as being there for a major reason. Doing that your frequency matches the healing vibration and you can do the work very easily.
Each time you are ready to love more yourself, your also ready to progress. Very simple and effective!
Why can`t things go fast?
When the work of forgiveness do not get done at the first time, means your higher self knows the best way for you and the less painful tool is to do it by phases through which you use your growth of consciousness at that moment in order to heal a certain moment. Trust your guiding system and be proud of all the expansion you have been experiencing.